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BE HAPPY

Merry making is a sign of Joy and happiness. A merry heart shows soundness in the soul and spirit. It is a sign of well being and wholesomeness. It is to exhibit a cheerful countenance. It is good for you to be happy and joyful. As someone said, life is too serious to be taken seriously. Take your time to be happy and joyful. There is always a bright side to every event in life. Each time you are joyful, your nerves relax momentarily from every form of tension or stress. The bible says. "A merry heart maketh a cheerful countenance and doeth good like a medicine"(Proverbs 15:13, 17:22). Youths who are always cheerful have a better chance of living a healthy life.   Singing is one of the best ways of appreciating God. It is also a way to express our joy. The merry heart must sing psalms and spiritual songs to praise the Lord. Spend today singing inspirational songs with cheerfulness of heart. God says, " Let the word of Christ dwell in you richly in all wisdom; teachin...

Safeguarding your relationship against teen dating violence

What is teen dating Violence? Teen dating violence is the abusive behavior exhibited within a dating relationship among teenagers. Teen dating violence is all about abusing the essence of a dating relationship. What is the essence of a dating relationship? The essence of a dating relationship is to make the both parties involved in that relationship happy, and to make them help each other. But if the activities and actions that lead to happiness in a relationship is no longer there, and there tend to be actions that lead to depression and heartbreak in a dating relationship, then we can say that relationship is a teen dating violence. Teen dating violence involves the physical abuse (Kicking, slapping, hitting, punching, shoving, etc); emotional abuse (yelling, intimidation, spreading rumors, isolation, stalking, threats, name calling); and sexual abuse (unwanted kissing, and any other form of coerced sexual act) of a dating partner by a co dating partner. Many teenagers in ...

BUILDING STRONG MARRIAGES

The Success Behind Marriages What actually is the success behind marriages. Why is it some marriages seem to succeed, while some fail? Our present world is characterised with incessant divorces and broken homes. Studies have shown that most married couples who have not yet divorced are not happy with their marriages. They are only staying together for the sake of the children, or financial or religious reasons, but the bottom line is that they are not happy.  Important keys for a successful Marriage A) Marry the right person : Now that might sound pretty simple. Marry the right person. But doesn't it make sense that so many marriages fail because the couples were not right for each other from the start.    Why do people marry today? some of the common reasons why people marry today are physical appearance, money, to escape unhappy home, for sexual gratification, desperation, pressure from parents, etc.  And those are all wrong reasons.   When the ...

Why You Must Not Commit Suicide

What   is suicide? According to the oxford dictionary, suicide is the act of killing yourself deliberately. It is an act by an individual to end his or her life. It is a decision made by an individual to terminate his or her life. It is the intentional killing of oneself. There are various ways to commit suicide, depending on the choice of the individual committing the act. The common ways most victims of suicide used in committing suicide include: poisoning self, stabbing self, hanging self, shooting self, burning self, injecting self with a dangerous chemical, e.t.c Why would one ever think of committing suicide? For you to understand the reason why an individual would end his or her life, you need to consider the situations that precede the suicidal act. Before people commit suicide, there is certainly something that must have led them to take that decision. The victims of suicide were already aware of the core consequence of suicide: ceased existence on the p...

Mistake Most Sports Fans Make

There is a particular mistake that most sports fans make during live matches. In the process of gaining the pleasure of witnessing a game physically, they make a critical mistake. The mistake I am talking about is having sex with harlots from that state or country, where the game was held.    Your main aim for coming to that country, state, or province is to view the game and relish the pleasure of the entertainment, and not to have sex and cause a problem that you may not be aware. Most sports fans often make this mistake while lodging in a hotel, awaiting for the game to end. There is absolutely no crime in enjoying yourselves while lodging in a hotel during live matches. Of course, fans can find something to keep themselves company and happy during the period of a game. But to have sex with someone you know nothing about, and from a different country  is very wrong. I know that it is your right to do whatever pleases you with your body, and there might be noth...

The Moment When Temptation Strikes

Understanding Temptation Temptation is the desire to do or have something that you know is wrong or bad. Temptation is an attraction to an action or an object that is absolutely wrong. To illustrate, while shopping you see a desirable object. The thought that you could easily steal the object invades your mind. However, when your conscience says no! And you dismiss the thought and move on. At that point you are a victor. But when your conscience says yes and you yield to that temptation, you have allowed the temptation to subdue you. You will find yourself doing the wrong thing and facing the repercussions.   Temptation is like a trade; it is like an offer made to you. Most times when people make an offer to you, you might instinctively discover what they want you to exchange for that offer. Or they might even tell you what you need to exchange before they grant you that offer. But when you see temptation and it's offer, it doesn't tell you to surrender anything for it...

The Profitable Allegiance That Grants Freedom

A fter  teaching  for  several  hours  and  in  order  to  elucidate  his  point  clearly  from  the  opinions  of  the  students,  the  professor  asked,  "What  is  the  greatest  gift  ever  in  life?  And  I  need  reasons  for  your  answers.  Many  of  the  students  were  enticed  by  this  questions,  and  they  decided  to  give  their  diverse  answers  to  the  question.  Some  said  the  greatest  gift  ever  on  earth  is  love;  some  said  happiness;  some  said  wealth;  some  said  honour;  some  said  greatness;  some  considered  also  long  life  and...

Nigerians swimming in the ocean of sorrow in Libya

The pains were much; the sufferings seemed endless, and tears flowed like a river. When every efforts to make things better proved futile, they hollered. The hollering was loud, but when listened to closely, one cannot tell its contrast with a sorrowful wail. The insincerity of our leaders, and the state of nature our country found itself, blinded their eyes to their future and hardened their hearts not to wait on their potentials. Hence, they were moved by hope that was like a mustard seed, to do whatever it takes to get to that land, where deceptive mouths attested to the milk and honey flowing there, but forgetting to tell them that the milk and honey had already soured. They wanted to be out of the country as soon as possible. They could no longer tolerate the mess in the country. They wanted to fly to that country where many had assured that it is better there. They didn't even mind if the country was better than their homeland or not. They just wanted to be out of...

The Stoat - What Christians must not learn from this small mammal

About a Stoat A stoat is a small mammal that is often found in open habitats like heathlands, grasslands and sand dunes. It is a small predator and it feeds on rabbits, eggs and small rodents. It is a hunter that is active day and night. It's back is chestnut brown while its throat and belly is colored white with a black tipped tail. During winter its entire fur changes to  white completely, and its fur becomes more thicker and dense. The only part of it that doesn't change is the black tipped tail. What Christians should and shouldn't learn from this animal What Christians should learn Like I said earlier, during winter, the Stoat changes from a chestnut brown fur animal to a complete white thick fur animal. And when this process is completed, the stoat is then called the white Ermine. Now during this period, the stoat cherishes its white coat more than its life. It can go to the length of giving up its life than to see its white coat get stained. Anything that would ...

The covenant we ought to make (meat for the soul)

What is covenant? Covenant is an agreement, either between people, or between God and a person or a group of people. When we deliberate deeply on our lives, we realize that most of our relationships with people involves a covenant, and we may be conscious or unconscious about it. In fact, the life we are living in our societies today is a covenant. People are getting along today because everyone is keeping his or her own part of the covenant. For instance, as a normal citizen of a state, you adhere to the laws and customs of the state, and the state in turn protects your rights as a citizen and provide social amenities for you. This is an example of a covenant. You are keeping your own part of the covenant by abiding to the laws of the state, and the state will keep its own part by protecting your rights as an abiding citizen whenever it is infringed on. You can see that there is an agreement. What is the purpose of this agreement between the state and the citizen? The purpose of th...

How to respond to bullying and safeguard your health from its effects

How Should I Respond To Bullying, and How Should I Safeguard my Health From It's Effects? What is bullying? Bullying is an intentional and repeated display of an aggressive or hostile behaviour by an individual or a group towards another individual that they deem to be inferior, less powerful or weak; and which can be effected via verbal, physical, and psychological means. Bullying is said to occur when you are exposed to constant nitpicking, fault finding, criticism of a trivial nature, constant refusal to acknowledge you and your contributions, isolation, marginalization, attempts to undermine you and your potentials, humiliation, belittling, etc Steps on How to Respond to Bullying 1) Know why you are bullied:  This is the most important step that most victims often overlook. Their is a reason why you are bullied and you need to discover it so that you can know the certain changes you can make on your part to stop the bullying. For instance, the most common triggers of b...