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Safeguarding your relationship against teen dating violence

What is teen dating Violence? Teen dating violence is the abusive behavior exhibited within a dating relationship among teenagers. Teen dating violence is all about abusing the essence of a dating relationship. What is the essence of a dating relationship? The essence of a dating relationship is to make the both parties involved in that relationship happy, and to make them help each other. But if the activities and actions that lead to happiness in a relationship is no longer there, and there tend to be actions that lead to depression and heartbreak in a dating relationship, then we can say that relationship is a teen dating violence. Teen dating violence involves the physical abuse (Kicking, slapping, hitting, punching, shoving, etc); emotional abuse (yelling, intimidation, spreading rumors, isolation, stalking, threats, name calling); and sexual abuse (unwanted kissing, and any other form of coerced sexual act) of a dating partner by a co dating partner. Many teenagers in ...

BUILDING STRONG MARRIAGES

The Success Behind Marriages What actually is the success behind marriages. Why is it some marriages seem to succeed, while some fail? Our present world is characterised with incessant divorces and broken homes. Studies have shown that most married couples who have not yet divorced are not happy with their marriages. They are only staying together for the sake of the children, or financial or religious reasons, but the bottom line is that they are not happy.  Important keys for a successful Marriage A) Marry the right person : Now that might sound pretty simple. Marry the right person. But doesn't it make sense that so many marriages fail because the couples were not right for each other from the start.    Why do people marry today? some of the common reasons why people marry today are physical appearance, money, to escape unhappy home, for sexual gratification, desperation, pressure from parents, etc.  And those are all wrong reasons.   When the ...

Why You Must Not Commit Suicide

What   is suicide? According to the oxford dictionary, suicide is the act of killing yourself deliberately. It is an act by an individual to end his or her life. It is a decision made by an individual to terminate his or her life. It is the intentional killing of oneself. There are various ways to commit suicide, depending on the choice of the individual committing the act. The common ways most victims of suicide used in committing suicide include: poisoning self, stabbing self, hanging self, shooting self, burning self, injecting self with a dangerous chemical, e.t.c Why would one ever think of committing suicide? For you to understand the reason why an individual would end his or her life, you need to consider the situations that precede the suicidal act. Before people commit suicide, there is certainly something that must have led them to take that decision. The victims of suicide were already aware of the core consequence of suicide: ceased existence on the p...

Mistake Most Sports Fans Make

There is a particular mistake that most sports fans make during live matches. In the process of gaining the pleasure of witnessing a game physically, they make a critical mistake. The mistake I am talking about is having sex with harlots from that state or country, where the game was held.    Your main aim for coming to that country, state, or province is to view the game and relish the pleasure of the entertainment, and not to have sex and cause a problem that you may not be aware. Most sports fans often make this mistake while lodging in a hotel, awaiting for the game to end. There is absolutely no crime in enjoying yourselves while lodging in a hotel during live matches. Of course, fans can find something to keep themselves company and happy during the period of a game. But to have sex with someone you know nothing about, and from a different country  is very wrong. I know that it is your right to do whatever pleases you with your body, and there might be noth...

The Moment When Temptation Strikes

Understanding Temptation Temptation is the desire to do or have something that you know is wrong or bad. Temptation is an attraction to an action or an object that is absolutely wrong. To illustrate, while shopping you see a desirable object. The thought that you could easily steal the object invades your mind. However, when your conscience says no! And you dismiss the thought and move on. At that point you are a victor. But when your conscience says yes and you yield to that temptation, you have allowed the temptation to subdue you. You will find yourself doing the wrong thing and facing the repercussions.   Temptation is like a trade; it is like an offer made to you. Most times when people make an offer to you, you might instinctively discover what they want you to exchange for that offer. Or they might even tell you what you need to exchange before they grant you that offer. But when you see temptation and it's offer, it doesn't tell you to surrender anything for it...

The Profitable Allegiance That Grants Freedom

A fter  teaching  for  several  hours  and  in  order  to  elucidate  his  point  clearly  from  the  opinions  of  the  students,  the  professor  asked,  "What  is  the  greatest  gift  ever  in  life?  And  I  need  reasons  for  your  answers.  Many  of  the  students  were  enticed  by  this  questions,  and  they  decided  to  give  their  diverse  answers  to  the  question.  Some  said  the  greatest  gift  ever  on  earth  is  love;  some  said  happiness;  some  said  wealth;  some  said  honour;  some  said  greatness;  some  considered  also  long  life  and...